We wanted to come visit the Bates family in Connecticut this fall - we being me and of course where I go, the girls go! Joseph turned eight on the 24th of October and so the baptism was planned for today, November 12th so that we could stay home for Halloween with Ken and then enjoy some fall fun and of course the baptism.
On Saturday, October 29th, the day of Joey's birthday party Connecticut, and really the north east was hit by an unusually early but devastating snow storm. The trees were so weighed down by leaves and snow that limbs and trees where coming down everywhere. By the evening of the 29th the Bates family had lost power as had one million other people in Connecticut. We were thankful that they were safe and warm with friends and also so thankful that the 29th wasn't the baptism. Storm Alfred is now gone and the community is returning to normal even though clean up will take weeks. It's crazy driving through the neighbourhood and seeing piles and piles of tree limbs, uprooted trees and branches. It took a week to get their power back and the boys missed a week and a half of school. Suzanne and I were so glad that everything was getting back to normal in time for Joey's baptism and for our arrival.
Wednesday was travel day. Alice's first trip to the US and Alice's first trip on an airplane. I was anxious... very anxious. The drive to Buffalo was great. Kate slept all the way to the border and Alice slept all the way to the airport. The border guard was friendly and when I asked for a stamp for Alice's passport, to mark her first trip, he said that I would have to fly over the border or go inside and wait for an hour. He laughed and said to take a picture... we didn't take a picture.
We got to the airport and spent some time exploring and hanging out with Ken before it was time to go through security. Kate was fine saying goodbye to Daddy but melted down when I put her jacket in a bin to go through the x-ray machine. We calmed down and waited at the gate with some other cute kids. Everything was going really well. The first half of the flight was great. Thankfully the flight was just over an hour so that the last half of the flight wasn't great really only meant 20 minutes or so of yuck. Alice screamed then Kate screamed, then Alice screamed then Kate screamed; fun times. Suzanne and Anna met us at baggage claim and then we set off from Boston for the two hour trip to South Windsor, Connecticut. The car ride was fine, a few tears but fine, we got to the Bates home, had snacks and then went to bed.
Thursday was a rainy day and a quiet day. Anna and Kate mostly played well together and we just hung out. We did go to the library in the evening and that was fun. Thursday night I put the girls to bed and was excited about actually going out on Friday.
Sometime around 1 a.m. Kate started barfing. She barfed on the bed. I took the sheets off the bed, changed Kate and Matthew came to stay with Alice and Kate and I went downstairs. Poor little Kate watched some tv and barfed several more times. When I heard Alice waking up we went back upstairs and tried to get settled and go back to sleep. It was a rough night to say the least.
Friday Kate slept until noon. She was hungry and chipper when she woke up and I took this as a good sign. We had a quiet book reading, movie filled afternoon and Suzanne did LOTS of laundry. I was really hopeful that this was going to be a 24 hour thing and we could still go to the baptism.
It's noon Saturday. The last minute cleaning and preparing is going on and both of my little ladies are asleep. Kate barfed again last night and again this morning and I'm calling it. We're not going to go to the baptism. I'm sad. Being so far away from family we miss out on so many special occasions. I was excited for Kate to see Joey get baptized and for us to be part of his special day.
Okay, so now for good stuff. I love spending time with my nephews and nieces and sister and brother-in-law, even in less than ideal circumstances. Alice decided that she is now an official cross-crawler as of last night - November 11th. Alice also started saying ma ma ma ma last night, not totally calling it her first word yet, but she's getting closer. (She also says ne ne ne ne when she wants to nurse)
I'm looking forward to a really fun week. Here's to no more barfing and fun with family!
Anna loves to play dress-up and she and Kate dressed up as princesses on Thursday.
They also had some fun colouring.
Thomas originally stuck the bucket on Alice's head. (Notice Anna and Kate are both passed out in the background.
Cutie Thomas and Alice.
Sweet Joey on his baptism day.
Joey and Wendy
Pretty Anna all dressed up and ready to go to the baptism.
Anna and Tony ready to go to the baptism. Tony is the younger brother of a good friend of Joey. Their family came down from Nashua for Joey's special day.
Alice finding and eating paper.