In July when I made the decision to go to Utah to see Marcus come home from his mission and Seth depart I forgot about the appointment for Mom at the memory clinic at the hospital. This was her first visit, and this is when she received the diagnosis of dementia likely due to Alzheimer's. I'm so grateful for the way my trip to Utah worked out, so I'm grateful that when I was booking the flights I had forgotten about the appointment. At the end of that first appointment, the next in person appointment was scheduled for Remembrance Day. The Doctor didn't have the easiest time communicating with CJ in the appointment so it was very good that Andrew was there. In that July appointment the Doctor instructed that Andrew would be at a phone appointment in September, and then I would be at the next in person appointment in November.
The challenge, it was Remembrance Day. I have helped plan and or do music at the Remembrance Day ceremony since I started teaching. At my new school I've done all the planning and just done the ceremonies since we could have them again in 2022. They are a lot of work, they are extremely important to me and they are a labour of love.
Nadia (my principal) and I scheduled the Remembrance Day Ceremony directly after morning recess. We planned to do one assembly for the whole school. A supply was booked to cover me (thank you Nadia) and everything came together beautifully. Everything was done beautifully. One of the things that I was really happy about was the fact that I was able to finish writing a song "Choose to Remember" with enough time to have the choir learn it. It was really gratifying. The choir also sang "Peace For Everyone" which I wrote two years ago.
I was so proud of all of the kids who participated. It was really a beautiful ceremony. I'm really proud of it. And it was finished in time for me to clean up and go meet Mom and CJ at the hospital.
Choose to Remember
Today is the day to remember
The heroes we never knew
We’ll listen to their stories
Learn about their lives
And then we ask, please will you choose to remember
Remember they were brave
Remember they were true
Remember that they lived
And died for me and you
This is the day to remember
A sacrifice made long ago
An answered call to serve
Fighting to protect
Our gift to them, we have to choose to remember
Remember they were brave
Remember they were true
Remember that they lived
And died for me and you
Now we will pause and reflect
How can we honour them
We’ll choose to forgive and choose to be kind
We’ll choose to see others with peace in our eyes
We are their hope for the future
We will choose to remember
~By Wendy Bacon
The appointment with my Mom went well. Things haven't really changed, Mom was having a good day. Dr. Thayaparan was very nice. I don't know if I really needed to be there, but I felt good being there. We also decided that it might be a good idea for Mom to do a sleep study to see if she might need a sleep apnea machine. As well Mom is going to start taking meds.
After the visit at the hospital I went out for a late lunch to Swiss Chalet with Mom and CJ. We had a very nice visit.
When I got home Fiona and I had a lovely walk with Milo by the lake. It was a good day.